I had a lot of dreams when I was expecting my first child. There were many things I desired, for the baby, this new person. One of the things I longed after was a nursery that matched. There was a particular primary color bear and heart pattern that made me smile. But I did not have the finances to create my “dream” nursery. Our car seats came from garage sales, our crib was generously handed down, and much of what we needed to care for our precious daughter was given in love by our dear friends and family.
My children are grown now. My nest is empty. The car seats and cribs are gone. And as I reflect on my family, and the raising of them, I find my priorities are very, very different from the expectant mom who desired matching sheets and blankets. Read more





